I think #boundaries are the hardest thing to deal with. I kinda feel, Boundaries are comparable to ethics…everybody has them, but some are looser than others. #yagetme
When you are in customer service it’s part of your job to determine what are your clients boundaries, sometimes without any verbal clarification. Such as…some clients use profanity or talk about religion, others don’t. It’s important for me to determine which is appropriate.
Other boundaries could be…
this is big for me. There are certain situations that i prefer to have at least 3ft between, others I can deal. I’m never really comfortable w Touchy Feely peeps. However, if I’m emotionally invested w that person, I don’t mind it. So look for me to stiffen up, if I haven’t mentally come to terms w your emotional physical display
Well…it seems self explanatory but some ppl don’t get it. It’s prob never a good idea to ignore the female to greet her man. Or letting the hug linger…it’s not an embrace, it’s a greeting that shldnt last longer than a handshake!
Another biggie for me. A dog growls when you come near there food bowl…I do that on the inside. Unless I offer, don’t touch my food. And NEVER grab my utensil & think I my use it again.
I don’t care if we are related or great friend PLEASE do yourself a favor…don’t go there! I’m the only female that can share his food. ##justsayin
We all have certain topics that bring up emotional reactions, it’s best for others to respect that.
For me, my weight (gain/loss) is none of your business & your unsolicited thoughts feelings opinions or ideas etc are not wanted. Believe me, if I want to discuss it with you I will bring it up.
What are a few of your Boundaries? How do you enforce your boundaries?
#respect #payattention #dontcrosstheline